As I start my third year as a stay-at-home-mom, I answer the question, "How do you like being a SAHM?" a lot. How do you answer that question?
"Yeah, it's busy but great."
"Yeah, but it's harder than I expected."
"Somedays."
"I miss socialization."
The people who ask have never experienced the joys and struggles of the Stay-at-Home-Mom job. To them I offer: 10 secrets a Stay-at-Home-Mom doesn't want you to know.
10. Occasionally it's a race against the husband walking in the door and putting on real pants.
9. Lunch options are not as glamorous as Pinterest makes it look. Chicken nuggets, PB&J, Fish sticks, repeat.
8. Make-up? Hahaha
7. Somedays, we don't need to go to the store, we need someone to be buckled in one place for a little while.
6. Other days, getting everyone packed up and in the car seems impossible and nothing is worth it.
5. Showering is a luxury. Showering with no one else in the bathroom, a fantasy.
4. The amount of dishes that are used throughout a day is insurmountable. It's a feat just to keep a few clean dishes in the cupboard.
3. Same with clothes. And getting all the laundry folded (without someone unfolding them) is a pipe dream.
2. Listening to others talk about lunch dates or coffee breaks is irritating.
1. It's isolating when everyone else has peers and you're stuck talking to a 1 year old.
But I love it and wouldn't change a thing!
I want to hear what you would add to the list!
Some days I reheat my coffee 3 times before I actually get to drink it hot! With a 5 year old and a 2 year old it's impossible not to have a busy schedule. Too much time home they go stir crazy (along with me) and too much running around isn't worth it so finding a happy balance is hard.
ReplyDeleteI hear ya about the coffee (but mine is drinking my soda still cold)!!
DeleteHaha, I love #3!
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